If a friend was going to tell you something negative about yourself, something that would be tough to hear, would you rather…
- Hear it in person (and/or via phone)?
- Get a letter or email so you can think on it a bit before responding?
- Something else?
Me, I’d rather get the news privately in writing, so I can process it, rather than being hit with it in a conversation where I’d have to think of something to say right off. But I’m wondering if I’m abnormal in this regard…?